The Relatives Are Coming… for Easter!

One of my and my ESL students’ favorite books was The Relatives Came! This was definitely a book we enjoyed reading and talking about together. Almost all my students were born in the US into immigrant families; nonetheless, they all had relatives who came to visit, sometimes from very far away. It was not unusual for me to hear comments like: “My grandmother is coming from El Salvador to spend the summer with us.” Or, “My grandparents are coming from China to live with us.” And, of course, there were always the nearby relatives, the cousins, who came to visit more often.

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The children always seemed happy when they told me about their relatives coming to visit. Perhaps it was because they hadn’t seen each other, in some cases, for several years; or because it was just something special to look forward to in their lives which could often be quite dull. I am sure their happiness reflected that of their parents who were probably also excited at seeing loved ones after a long separation.

When I was younger there was much more back and forth visiting of nearby relatives. There were, of course, relatives who were still living far away in Germany and Hungary, but we never got to meet them and never would for many reasons. But the relatives who lived nearby tended to stay close and visit often as immigrant extended families often do. So when my students talked about their cousins coming to visit, I always smiled because I remember my own romps with my cousins. Usually well behaved, we became feral children in the presence of cousins. I think it’s because the grownups released the reins and were having such a good time being with each other they forgot about us!

Now I have my own small family and in a few hours my son and his significant other will be brought to visit for the weekend by my husband who will pick them up after work in Brooklyn. They will have a quick dinner in Brooklyn, then brave the traffic on the LI Expressway (LIE) along with so many others doing the same. It’s not as arduous a trip as from China or El Salvador, but when there’s traffic in NY it can feel almost as draining.

I have spent the week doing things here and there to begin to prepare for their visit. Today I amped up the efforts to get ready. I swept and mopped the kitchen and bathroom floors; folded the laundry; got sheets and towels ready for the guests; did some errands and went grocery shopping. My plans almost fell through when I saw the size of the legs of lamb on sale at the supermarket. They were huge and expensive. I was stumped since I had planned on lamb for Easter Dinner. I mentioned to the butcher that all the legs of lamb were too big for me and he quickly offered to cut one in half. Saved! I came home with strawberries, asparagus, string beans, carrots and other spring delights.

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Human beings are very social creatures for the most part. We enjoy being with family members and sharing occasions, but I no longer go overboard: a lovely brunch with Easter eggs and mimosas will do the trick. Dinner will be a roast leg of lamb with potatoes, carrots and stringbeans. And our special treat will be a chocolate babka from our local bakery.

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Of course, there will be Easter baskets which my grown kids still look forward to, egg dying and, weather permitting, an Easter egg hunt for my 30+ almost-daughter-in-law who is an only child and never got to have one with siblings.

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So…the relatives are coming, and yes, we are all excited. Hope your weekend holds some special moments for you as well.

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24 thoughts on “The Relatives Are Coming… for Easter!”

  1. Delightful and delicious that’s what I thought as I read and enjoyed your pictures. Such excitement fills the house when the relatives come! Your childhood memories sure resonate with me. Thanks for causing me to remember.

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  2. The Relatives Came is a favorite book, and shows exactly how my growing up was too. Like yours, so exciting to spend time with everyone, and especially those cousins. I’m the only one far away & my cousins get together once a month for dinner. I hope I can make one of those times this summer. Have a wonderful Easter with your son and “almost” daughter-in-law, Barbara.

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    1. I wrote a reply to you earlier but just discovered it didn’t “take.” So here’s another. I really hope you’ll make time for those cousins; those memories are irreplaceable. My children only have one cousin, so there life experience has been so different. I enjoy hearing about your family adventures as well, so keep them coming!

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  3. I like that you can relate to your ESL students when you think back to your own childhood. What a fun weekend you have ahead of you! Have a wonderful Easter!

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    1. Teaching ESL is all about making connections so the students can apply the language they are learning to things they are familiar with. And what could be more familiar than family events! Even though I’m retired, I still see the world through my ESL lens at times. You have a wonderful Easter as well!

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  4. I loved your post with all the photos! Particularly, the l;ast one with people wearing bunny masks and sitting around the dining room table. Beautiful and fun to read! I am dying to have a slice of that chocolate babka and love the mention of all the foods. One of my favorite books, too. Rylant’s picture book is a timeless work. Thanks for sharing, Barbara!

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    1. It’s one of the books I kept for myself when I retired. And I’m glad I did since it does evoke such powerful memories. I wasn’t sure about the final photo…wondered if people might think it weird. So I’m so glad you appreciated it! Maybe I’ll have some photos to share after Easter….

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  5. That is also one of my favorite children’s books. I have many cousins on both sides of the family and it was always a treat to have them come visit. I can remember standing at the window waiting and waiting, always starting much earlier than their anticipated arrival. No wonder we waited so long!

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  6. The relatives coming always makes a celebration, whether it’s a holiday or not. What a great weekend you will have! The food sounds delicious, I will imagine all this goodness because we are having soft foods in my house. My husband had some dental surgery yesterday, so no chewing allowed.

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    1. Bad timing…I guess those jelly beans will just have to wait. But he can enjoy all the eggs he desires…deviled eggs, eggs benedict, fritattas. Wish you could join us! Happy Easter to you out there in the heart of the country.

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  7. Have a lovely Easter, you certainly have all the makings for one…especially the relatives! My son and daughter drove up to us (upstate NY) from Brooklyn yesterday…nothing quite like having all the family around.

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  8. Sounds like great fun! The menu looks and sounds yummy! And can I just say the chocolate babka looks amazing!!! Enjoy the time with family!

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    1. Yes…the chocolate babka was to be the surprise. And guess what, the “relatives” arrived with a chocolate babka from an Italian bakery in Brooklyn. So now we have 2 chocolate babkas to enjoy!

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    2. The chocolate babka was to be the big surprise. But then they arrived last night with goodies…including another chocolate babka. There goes the diet! You can never have enough chocolate babka. I’ll save you a big piece!

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